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Kiran Kanwar wrote: 15 Jun 2021, 02:19 I agree that a proper mindset and disciplined habits can help us succeed but at the same time, I don't think discouragement and distraction are production killers.

You need to analyse the reason for your discouragement and distraction. Maybe you are tired and that's why you feel that way. It is a signal for you to take a rest to avoid burnout.

But even after taking rest u=you are feeling discouraged or distracted it can mean two things:

1. You are not giving your best and thus you need a proper mindset and proper daily habits, or
2. Maybe what you are working on is not what you want to do. In this case, discouragement and distraction can actually help you understand that this is not what you really want from life. And who knows, you may end up finding your true passion in the time you are distracted.
You have given some sound advice on this topic. I do not think that discouragement and distraction have to be production killers, but I think most of the time we let them be, and excuse it as we are distracted. I know when I am on a task and I keep getting disturbed (distracted), it does make it harder to go back to, and sometimes I get frustrated and just give up. Thank you for sharing your thoughts.
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I agree that discouragement and distractions are production killers because those two words are heavyweights that will only pull you back when you are trying to move forward in life.
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cd20 wrote: 15 Jun 2021, 13:22
Kiran Kanwar wrote: 15 Jun 2021, 02:19 I agree that a proper mindset and disciplined habits can help us succeed but at the same time, I don't think discouragement and distraction are production killers.

You need to analyse the reason for your discouragement and distraction. Maybe you are tired and that's why you feel that way. It is a signal for you to take a rest to avoid burnout.

But even after taking rest u=you are feeling discouraged or distracted it can mean two things:

1. You are not giving your best and thus you need a proper mindset and proper daily habits, or
2. Maybe what you are working on is not what you want to do. In this case, discouragement and distraction can actually help you understand that this is not what you really want from life. And who knows, you may end up finding your true passion in the time you are distracted.
You have given some sound advice on this topic. I do not think that discouragement and distraction have to be production killers, but I think most of the time we let them be, and excuse it as we are distracted. I know when I am on a task and I keep getting disturbed (distracted), it does make it harder to go back to, and sometimes I get frustrated and just give up. Thank you for sharing your thoughts.
Yes, we should take time off and think about why are we feeling distracted or discouraged. Otherwise, this cycle will continue endlessly with us being passively part of it.
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the_ashfeathers wrote: 15 Jun 2021, 11:55 I agree but only in theory. In practicalism, however, there are times when you have to resort to means of distractions to be productive [n]in the present[/b]. A number of times in life you'll reach a position, a phase where you can not let go of something at some time, facing it would break you, so you look for methods of distraction. At that time, even if this running away doesn't help in the long run, you do get time to muster up the power to start that 'long run'. It's okay to distract yourself sometimes. Maybe. At this point, I'm confused about who I'm telling it's okay, you or me?
I also agree in theory. In reality, it depends on the situation and the distraction. I know when I am discouraged it is a big production killer, but distractions are more frequent and annoying. I think distractions can be good, at times, but not when I am working and keep getting interrupted. I think you were telling us both that it is okay, LOL. Thank you for sharing your thoughts.
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review-specialist wrote: 16 Jun 2021, 12:51 I agree that discouragement and distractions are production killers because those two words are heavyweights that will only pull you back when you are trying to move forward in life.
I agree. Although, if you are done working, or need a break, distractions can be good as well. It depends on the situation as to whether distractions are production killers or not. For me, most times, discouragement is a huge productivity killer. I do not want to do anything but wallow in my discouragment. This is also true when I am overtired. Thank you for sharing your thoughts.
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I agree 100%. I have had plenty of goals that got cast aside because of distractions or discouragements. The best things in life are hard work as we all know. It is easy to get discouraged and distracted by a multitude of things. Maybe it is just me, but when I am working hard on something and a distraction or challenge comes my way, it is almost certain that I lose focus. I can regain the focus at a later time or day, but that session and in that moment, all hope is usually lost.
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Yes, I agree that discouragement and distraction are production killers. To complete a task successfully, you have to be focused on said task. Distractions and discouragement affect work productivity, not to mention your attitude towards the work.
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I partially agree with this statement. Discouragement is an absolute production killer. If you are told repeatedly that your work is no good, would you want to continue to work on such a project/activity? Of course not! Which is why teachers, coaches, mentors, etc. are all taught to be POSITIVE and, relative to each situation, be gentle in your criticism as well as provide CONSTRUCTIVE strategies and guidance rather than simply stating "you're doing that wrong" or "you're bad/horrible".
Distraction, however, is a bit of a muddier topic. Distraction can lead to breakthroughs in other areas, so while not necessarily productive to the "main" project, distraction could be helpful on "side" projects.
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I agree and relate to it too . Distractions are the major obstacles in the path of your dreams and success. One who overcomes them and stays motivated reach to their goals. People discourage others seeing their growth but if you are self motivated nothing can break or stop you from achieving your goals.
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I agree on what the author tries to emphasize in this instance. Basically, demotivation is one of the major productivity killers as it impacts our ability to keep focusing on the process. Many of us do not like rejections and set backs as it hurt us and feel emotionally. Distraction takes place in several forms. It can be because of the surrounding or the social media.
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I do agree that discouragement and distraction can be production killers, however, I also have to a realistic approach as well. A positive attitude does have it’s place, but it will only get you so far. There, unfortunately, will always be distractions. And it’s not always possible to surround ourselves with only positive people. For this reason, we need to learn how to rise above both. We need to train ourselves to be productive irregardless of what life throws our way. And that’s something I feel so many self-help books fail to recognize.
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I agree, a good mindset is needed to achieve a dream and discouragement and distraction doesn't build a go mind set, for there's a need to have all the resources to achieve a dream and there's another to think 'I can do it'
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Ldpuff wrote: 17 Jun 2021, 11:24 I agree 100%. I have had plenty of goals that got cast aside because of distractions or discouragements. The best things in life are hard work as we all know. It is easy to get discouraged and distracted by a multitude of things. Maybe it is just me, but when I am working hard on something and a distraction or challenge comes my way, it is almost certain that I lose focus. I can regain the focus at a later time or day, but that session and in that moment, all hope is usually lost.
I agree. I was just thinking I shouldn't have my phone sitting beside me because it keeps distracting me. When I am discouraged I really want to give up and quit. It does take a lot of hard work to stay focused and try not to be discouraged. Thank you for sharing your thoughts.
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Danelle Cale wrote: 17 Jun 2021, 17:21 Yes, I agree that discouragement and distraction are production killers. To complete a task successfully, you have to be focused on said task. Distractions and discouragement affect work productivity, not to mention your attitude towards the work.
I agree that they are productivity killers. It is so easy to get distracted, it is a lot harder to stay motivated and focused. Discouragement affects my productivity more than distractions, most of the time. Thank you for sharing your thoughts.
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Jordan Cane wrote: 17 Jun 2021, 18:12 I partially agree with this statement. Discouragement is an absolute production killer. If you are told repeatedly that your work is no good, would you want to continue to work on such a project/activity? Of course not! Which is why teachers, coaches, mentors, etc. are all taught to be POSITIVE and, relative to each situation, be gentle in your criticism as well as provide CONSTRUCTIVE strategies and guidance rather than simply stating "you're doing that wrong" or "you're bad/horrible".
Distraction, however, is a bit of a muddier topic. Distraction can lead to breakthroughs in other areas, so while not necessarily productive to the "main" project, distraction could be helpful on "side" projects.
I would agree with that, but I am sure it varies a lot from person to person. I am more prone to lose my focus with discouragement than distractions, depending on what the distraction is. Others have commented on this post that distractions are good for breaks and often help to act as a reset, and I can see that too. Thank you for sharing your thoughts.
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