Could you date someone who doesn't read?

[Ellamgagne]

Yes, it's possible to date someone who doesn't read. Relationships are based on a variety of factors, including compatibility, shared values, mutual respect, and emotional connection. While having a shared interest in reading can be a wonderful aspect of a relationship, it is not a necessity. If both partners appreciate and respect each other's interests and hobbies, they can still have a fulfilling and meaningful relationship.

[Kaitlyn James]

Absolutely, as long as they have their own (mostly quiet) hobby. I can think of many things I would avoid just so that I could read a book. Want to take a jog, play video games, build..stuff? Let me grab the latest collection to my home library. I dare to wonder if, unless we started our own at-home book club, would we even talk if we were both readers? I would end up having to explain that I cannot lay down because I need to figure out if my favorite character is being killed off! That would not be the time to dissociate from my fantasy land. Instead, I would rather be the book worm while my partner does their thing! You know what a power couple is? Book smart, and street smart. It's okay for a relationship to be both!

[Aarya Gondkar]

Hehe, I am. And he is wonderful! The one good thing that comes out of this is that I love talking about my stories and he loves listening to them. He listens with such intent and love, trying to truly understand whatever I am passionately speaking about. For example, although this isn't quite about a book, the other day I was watching a series, a genre that isn't his type, and so he did a little background research to understand the characters, just so he could contribute to my rants and reviews. I think love is not all about similarities, it is about finding common ground, willingly.

[Luisa Hikong]

I am married to an intelligent man who doesn't or have no interest in reading non-fiction books.

He does read a lot for work (documents/paperworks/etc) and is more interested in visual mediums like animation/movies.

He does value my love for reading and he actually bought my kindle- at a crazy price (out of our budget then) and at once ( I was waiting for a preorder to our country to save on costs).

So yes, i would and I did and I don't think its a deal breaker for me.

[Genesis Haney]

Well people's with the same hobbies interact more with each other and finding something common with the other person creates a spark but wether I would date someone that doesn't read is another question I am more likely to date a person that does like reading but if I find someone that bonds well with me then I have no problem even if that someone does not read so overall I am more likely to date a person that reads but I have no problem if if that is not the case

[pocketfullofsunshine]

My husband isn’t a reader but occasionally he will read a nonfiction, how-to or reference book. His book collection consists of reference books he comes across at second hand stores.

I mainly read fiction and I always have a book I’m currently reading. I never go longer than 30 minutes after finishing a book before starting a new one.

[hanaduheric]

It's more fun when you share hobbies, so why couldn't it be reading?
I picture it like laying in the park, both nose-deep in our current read (cliche, I know ). Then, on the walk home, we exchange ideas we read.
I think you don't have to be an enthusiast or anything. My bottom line is that you have to know the classics and the books we had to read in school.

[Sara Leony]

Interesting question...

I'm lucky, my partner is an avid reader, but I don't think it would be a big deal if I met someone and they didn't read, there are a plenty of other things we could talk about, music, movies, etc...

Yeah, as long as the person is decent and doesn't mind my random reading quirks and fits of random maniac giggles then we good.

[Lorna Kimondo]

While engaging in reading and literary discussions can be a wonderful way to connect with a partner, there are countless other ways to bond. Reading is just one of many interests and hobbies that couples can share. I would certainly enjoy having a partner who loves to read, but it’s not a deal breaker if they don’t.

[Akansha Kapoor 1]

I am married to a guy who does not read
He is fond of the TV and I am fond of books. I generally do not have any issues since he respects the fact that I need to read daily (even if just one page). Sometimes if there is a social engagement and I get antsy, he will nudge me and say just get on your phone already.

So it has been good - it will be 11 years of marrige this year.

[Fikile Teyisi]

Nope I wouldn't honestly and if I would I'd keep my books far away from them, some people can get insecure about things they do not understand or practice. Even end up blaming the books (Just based of a title and the authors gender) and for any of your hiccups in the relationship.

[Esther-David]

I couldn't do it! The last person I had a crush on told me they didn't read and it was an immediate turn off! I prefer my partner to be well-read and educated. I also would love to discuss books with them. Common interests are very important to any relationship, and reading is one of my main passions. It is my dream to regularly spend time with my partner reading, drinking tea, and cuddling with blankets and pets.

[Anushka Surve]

Yes, I could date someone who doesn't read. While reading is important to me, it's not the only factor in a relationship. I value mutual respect, shared values, and emotional connection more. If my partner appreciates my interests and has their own passions, we can still have a strong and fulfilling relationship.

[Kimberly Burgess 1]

I could date someone who didn't read, and I have in the past. But I would not be able to "end up with" someone who didn't value reading. Even if they were in a season of life where they were too busy to read, I want someone who is constantly reading and finds joy in expanding their mind. Plus, someone who does not read likely would be annoyed by how much I do read and that's just unfortunate.

[London Baum]

I am married to a non-reader, so yes I could! What’s important to me is that he loves that I do and is always encouraging me to try our new genres or types of book. He knows it makes me happy so he encourages time for me to and takes interest in what I’m reading.

What I couldn’t do is someone who doesn’t try to relate to my love of it, because we can’t all have the same passions and hobbies, but we can learn and care and not put down. He has some passions that I’m not interested in taking up but I always strive to ask him about it the same as I want him to do with ms