Baby, what's your age?

Izesicle · Post by **Izesicle** » 04 Jul 2017, 15:28

I have dated younger men around 3 years younger, no more. It depends on the maturity level. now I am more attracted to older men.

Seraphia Bunny Sparks · Post by **Seraphia Bunny Sparks** » 04 Jul 2017, 16:14

I think that if the character had been honest about her age that it would have brought the interest to a grinding halt. I know that when I have found out that a guy is a certain age that it has given me pause if it's a huge jump. I've dated older guys and been interested in younger guys but as I've gotten older I've moderated to just wanting a small age difference at the end of the day.

Nthabeleng · Post by **Nthabeleng** » 04 Jul 2017, 17:06

When I was young age mattered but as I'm getting older it doesn't, now I think there are more important things than age.

But I'd never date a guy 5 or more years older than me ?

Keri wood · Post by **Keri wood** » 04 Jul 2017, 17:22

In my eyes once you and the other person are of age then age is just a number. My husband is seven years older than me and it doesn't bug me a bit. I was thirteen and had the biggest crush on him I never acted on it but once I turned eighteen I let him know my feelings and come to find out he felt the same he just didn't want to get in trouble for being with someone underage when he was an adult. Now I'm twenty one and he's twenty eight we have a two year old daughter and we are madly in love.

Vitadolce · Post by **Vitadolce** » 04 Jul 2017, 18:47

Age just a number, my husband 5 years older than me. That's not a big deal. Because I prefer someone older than me.

khusnick · Post by **khusnick** » 05 Jul 2017, 21:24

My boyfriend is two and a half years older than me, and we started dating in high school. He was only one grade above me, though, so it didn't really feel like a big deal. I don't think I could date anyone younger than me, though.

Naval Aulakh · Post by **Naval Aulakh** » 05 Jul 2017, 22:47

For me age does not matter in relationships. It's all about love and understanding

Aohanlon86 · Post by **Aohanlon86** » 06 Jul 2017, 04:04

Amagine wrote:I would never date someone who is significantly younger than me. Three years is my limit. If they are more than three years younger than me then it won't work.

But what about older

-- 06 Jul 2017, 04:08 --

I think age matter a little big. because if you are 25 and they are 17 that makes a difference. once they are over 18. age is just a number. I am 30 and I typically wont date 19-20 because they are at the party stage and immature for me. so age is a number it the maturity that matters. my husband is 16 years older then me and we get a long. some time he points out that I may not know something cause I wasn't born yet, but we work together fantastically

Donnavila Marie01 · Post by **Donnavila Marie01** » 06 Jul 2017, 05:14

Emmaky wrote:When I was younger I was very keen on the age gap but now that am older and wiser there are more important things to consider like shared values.

To some extent, I agree to this that there are other things to consider like shared values than age. But I still doubt if the age range is 20 years or more.

gali · Post by **gali** » 08 Jul 2017, 00:19

Donnavila Marie01 wrote:
Emmaky wrote:When I was younger I was very keen on the age gap but now that am older and wiser there are more important things to consider like shared values.
To some extent, I agree to this that there are other things to consider like shared values than age. But I still doubt if the age range is 20 years or more.

I agree with you. A gap of 20 years is too much.

abba gibba · Post by **abba gibba** » 08 Jul 2017, 02:51

Age is quite critical in terms of dating but love doesn't know any age. The moment you fall in for someone, that is all. That age difference of three to me is not important but rather the passion they have for each other is the most important. Their love interest would have flourished if only they both truly fall foe each other.

Lest92 · Post by **Lest92** » 08 Jul 2017, 06:02

It depends I suppose on things like life experience and mental/emotional maturity to determine if someone is the right age, legal issues aside. I'm not leery of huge age gaps but I do think it takes a tad more awareness to make the relationship work.

Mahsa Martin · Post by **Mahsa Martin** » 08 Jul 2017, 08:16

I think if Elias knew about her age from the beginning, he would stop seeing her right there and then.
I have to admit, age had always been a factor for me, till I met my husband

of couse,he wasn't underage or anything.

Donnavila Marie01 · Post by **Donnavila Marie01** » 08 Jul 2017, 10:57

Amagine wrote:I would never date someone who is significantly younger than me. Three years is my limit. If they are more than three years younger than me then it won't work.

I have the same feeling Dating someone younger than me makes me feel uncomfortable. I don't want to be labeled as cradle snatcher.

Mahsa Martin · Post by **Mahsa Martin** » 08 Jul 2017, 11:36

Donnavila Marie01 wrote:
Amagine wrote:I would never date someone who is significantly younger than me. Three years is my limit. If they are more than three years younger than me then it won't work.
I have the same feeling Dating someone younger than me makes me feel uncomfortable. I don't want to be labeled as cradle snatcher.

yeah I hear you but believe me someone might turn all your rules upside down !!