Is it true women try to please their men?

gali · Post by **gali** » 14 Jul 2017, 06:32

Gravy wrote:I find this question to have some unpleasant connotations.

Every partner should try to please their significant other, regardless of gender. However, I don't think either side should just expect to be catered to, which is what comes to mind with this phrasing (like I said, connotations).

I believe a lot of women still have the unfortunate mindset that it's expected of them, but that some honestly enjoy it. I also believe that it should never be taken for granted, on either side.

I agree with you. I also agree about the phrasing of the question.

SilviaP21 · Post by **SilviaP21** » 14 Jul 2017, 10:11

I don't think it's a rule. In a healty relationship both partners try to please each other. If only one of them is making an effort, I think something is wrong.

kislany · Post by **kislany** » 14 Jul 2017, 10:22

I'd say it should be a bit of a compromise. Both should try to please each other and make each other happy. Afterall, isn't what loving each other is all about? It shouldn't be a one sided situation.

Jeconiaomolo · Post by **Jeconiaomolo** » 14 Jul 2017, 11:21

SilviaP21 wrote:I don't think it's a rule. In a healty relationship both partners try to please each other. If only one of them is making an effort, I think something is wrong.

Thanks for your contribution. I value your opinion. It's true both partners should please each other.

-- 14 Jul 2017, 11:23 --

kislany wrote:I'd say it should be a bit of a compromise. Both should try to please each other and make each other happy. Afterall, isn't what loving each other is all about? It shouldn't be a one sided situation.

OK well taken. It's true.

Amagine · Post by **Amagine** » 15 Jul 2017, 16:35

I think that it depends on the woman or the relationship.

Kinnera · Post by **Kinnera** » 15 Jul 2017, 20:45

I think it depends on the power dynamics of the couple. I do, however, agree that women are more likely to try and please than men because of a preconceived mindset.

Shireks Nancy · Post by **Shireks Nancy** » 16 Jul 2017, 00:34

People always try to please other people, I guess it is human nature, but women tend to do it more.

Malfoyy Slitherin · Post by **Malfoyy Slitherin** » 16 Jul 2017, 17:46

This is very true of women, especially when they feel they have wronged you or need to compensate you for hurting your feelings.

khadija001 · Post by **khadija001** » 16 Jul 2017, 19:16

It depends on the characters of some men and women, it seems that some can never be pleased with whichever extent you try to please them. The only solution is to imbibe the habit of appreciation.

Jeconiaomolo · Post by **Jeconiaomolo** » 17 Jul 2017, 07:13

khadija001 wrote:It depends on the characters of some men and women, it seems that some can never be pleased with whichever extent you try to please them. The only solution is to imbibe the habit of appreciation.

Yes I do agree with you.

khadija001 · Post by **khadija001** » 17 Jul 2017, 16:36

Jeconiaomolo wrote:
khadija001 wrote:It depends on the characters of some men and women, it seems that some can never be pleased with whichever extent you try to please them. The only solution is to imbibe the habit of appreciation.
Yes I do agree with you.

Tnx

Jeremie Mondejar · Post by **Jeremie Mondejar** » 17 Jul 2017, 20:21

Yes, I agree with that. A woman should please her man. It gives comfort and confidence to your man. And your man will always feel that someone especial really care.

ritah · Post by **ritah** » 18 Jul 2017, 04:30

I think in relationships people tend to want to please each other be it male or female. I think the problem comes in when it's demanded and not returned. When it becomes one sided and one party chooses to abuse it.

coding mantis · Post by **coding mantis** » 18 Jul 2017, 04:56

I hope in honest saying,this is not a biological/natural issue!
However,it is the couples' natural responsibility to keep pleasing each other and this is not naturally assigned to a specific gender group!!!

Merizah · Post by **Merizah** » 18 Jul 2017, 05:02

This question is on the minds of many
But to me I think women do try to please their men all the time. To them they wont get what they want if they dont.
For example in a typical African society women must submit to their husbands and do their bidding or else suffer the consequences. Therefore the women always think it best to please the men and make them happy so as to avoid being shunned by the husband , family and society